Honestly, the Reversed Queen of Cups usually points to someone being emotionally distant or guarded. They might be cynical or suspicious about something you said or did, or feel like you don't understand their feelings or needs. They can be ambivalent toward you, or just overwhelmed by how intense their emotions are right now. Their feelings may be out of balance — they might feel out of control and be having a hard time staying steady. Bottom line: they're struggling to express themselves, and the connection between you isn't as stable as it could be.