Interpreting the 9 of Wands as someone's feelings for another, I perceive it as a sense of caution. What are your thoughts and ideas on this?
9 of wands as feelings for someone
I agree that the 9 of Wands indicates a sense of caution - it could mean that the person is feeling guarded or protective of their feelings for the other person, without fully committing. It could also signify a fear of being hurt if they open up and allow themselves to become too vulnerable. In a romantic relationship, this could manifest as a fear of commitment, or a sense of uncertainty about whether the other person reciprocates their feelings.
Hmm... I would interpret it as having a defensive barrier, a fear of getting hurt again, leading to the cautious placement of a protective wall. (Based on the Robin Wood Tarot, which is what I'm currently using. Haha!) What's your take on it? 
MariiaMelnyk
Certainly, I've frequently considered it in a similar light. I lean towards literal readings, and given the card's robust meaning, it can be challenging to reconcile, especially in certain situations. The notion of "You're almost there" doesn't seem to align. What are your thoughts on this?
- Windows
In this scenario, it could signify one of two things for me. Either the person feels defensive around you or is displaying a protective attitude. The protective aspect tends to arise more often when the feelings in question belong to a man. Men often exhibit a strong sense of protection towards someone they have feelings for, embodying a masculine essence offering security to the feminine essence.
In my interpretation, the 10 of Wands signifies perseverance, depicting someone persisting despite the weight of their burdens. On the other hand, the 9 of Wands represents someone standing their ground. They've turned to face their adversary, ready and willing to fight if necessary. Often, just the confidence displayed is enough to deter any potential threats. What are your thoughts on this?
You all are amazing. This situation involves a man who has built a protective wall around himself and is afraid to reveal his true feelings. We had a significant disagreement, more like a heated argument, regarding his reluctance to express external emotions. He's genuinely fearful of delving into that territory.
Regarding my question about whether we'll get back together, it's surprising, but I keep getting the 7 of Pentacles. I suppose things will unfold and resolve themselves in due time. Your insights are greatly appreciated.
collinsjohn8301
I interpret it as a call for a healthier, more disciplined lifestyle. In terms of feelings, it could suggest that they perceive the person as someone who provides this lifestyle or that they sense the person could benefit from it. 
collinsjohn8301
The 9 of Wands suggests either defensive feelings or a sense of protectiveness. Men often feel protective when emotionally invested. This card signifies standing one's ground, ready to face challenges. The 10 of Wands shows perseverance despite burdens. 
a month later
- Windows
The presence of the 9 of Wands suggests a defensive stance, indicating difficulty in letting one's guard down. Additionally, with the 7 of Pentacles, which signifies slow and steady growth, it could imply a need to be patient in the relationship. Alternatively, it might signal a phase of evaluating the progress and considering necessary steps due to reaching a plateau. In relationships, such evaluation doesn't guarantee a positive or negative outcome; it simply reflects the dynamic nature of growth. Whether continuing to grow with the person or realizing the need to let go, these moments of reflection play a crucial role in the journey. I hope you don't mind my expanding on this, as consistent encounters with the same card sparked these additional insights. 
Joanna13
No worries! Your appreciation is noted. It seems like a phase of re-evaluation, especially if there's a mismatch in needs, with a desire for more on your end and contentment on his. Acknowledging that things might have plateaued and feel somewhat stagnant is a valuable realization. Writing it down can indeed serve as a form of therapeutic reflection, offering clarity and insight into the current situation. If you ever want to delve deeper or explore ways to navigate this phase, feel free to share more. 
- Windows
collinsjohn8301
Absolutely, recognizing the need for evaluation and taking conscious steps is a crucial aspect of personal growth and relationship dynamics. It sounds like you've been engaged in a reflective and proactive process, even if the outcome is still uncertain. Long processes often bring valuable insights, so take your time, I wish you the best of luck as you navigate through these decisions! If you ever want to share more or discuss further, feel free to do so.
Joanna13 I can relate to your feelings! You're welcome!