There are numerous ways to interpret cards. I believe the 10 of Wands is not associated with burdens or oppression. Instead, it signifies that Wands, representing creativity and passion, are at their peak. The 10s symbolize the maximum expression of the suit's element before reaching the Courts.
In essence, when considering someone's feelings for another, the 10 of Wands, for me, indicates that they are experiencing the deepest and most passionate emotions. Alternatively, it may suggest a strong desire to create the most profound and meaningful connection with the other person.🥰
These are my interpretations, and the card doesn't convey feelings of oppression or burdens.