What does "4 of cups" mean?
I'm learning what the tarot cards mean, and the 4 of cups is giving me trouble. Does the 4 of cups mean being so upset that you're not taking advantage of the chances that are right in front of you? When I look at the picture. I see a man who is upset about what he sees but doesn't see the cups he has or the chances that are out there for him.
Would you happen to know if this means what it says? 
Hey there! Exploring the 4 of Cups, huh? Yeah, it's a bit of a tricky one. You're on the right track with that interpretation. The 4 of Cups often signifies feeling discontent or disconnected, like you're so focused on what you don't have that you're missing out on the opportunities right in front of you. Is that dude in the card? Totally embodies that vibe—kind of sulking about what's not working out without realizing the potential around him. So yeah, you're spot on! 
Alex-L
I see it as having tunnel vision or being narrow-minded, unable to see the bigger picture. It's like being so fixated on what's right in front of you that you overlook other possibilities or aren't even aware of them. Disappointment isn't always the case, but personally, I tend to lean towards the more optimistic 4 of cups meaning. 
Alex-L
Water symbolizes movement and flow, making the stability of the "fours" contradictory to this element. That's why it's seen as a card of dissatisfaction. In the image, a man sits beneath a tree with three cups in front of him, while a hand emerges from a cloud, offering a fourth cup. He appears to be gazing at the three cups he already has, suggesting he's unhappy with them. This scenario is often referred to as the "grass is greener" syndrome, signifying discontent.
Despite his outward stillness, the man's emotions are restless. He may be stuck in habits and routines that no longer bring comfort, leading to boredom and dissatisfaction. This card reflects those who stew in their emotions, feeling irritable and unfulfilled.
Whether the querent relates more to the man under the tree or the unappreciated cups, it's clear that action is needed to address these feelings and bring about change. While there's still a chance to salvage the situation, time is running out. It's essential to confront these emotions openly and take proactive steps toward improvement. 
The 4 of Cups follows the celebratory energy of the 3 of Cups. It represents a period of anxious attachment, where one may fail to appreciate what they already have and feel a sense of dissatisfaction after experiencing highs. Despite its seemingly gloomy appearance, this card actually carries a positive message, reminding you that there's more to be grateful for than you realize. The figure in the Rider-Waite-Smith depiction may appear pouty, but what he truly needs is reassurance that his friends will return and that the good times are not yet over.
