Queen of Wands as how someone sees you

Salutation!
A terrific card that exudes warmth, charm, and confidence is the Queen of Wands. It indicates that he finds you to be powerful, colorful, and motivating if it keeps appearing in your layouts. I can appreciate your worry about coming across as domineering, though. The very independent and aggressive nature of the Queen of Wands can also be frightening to certain people. Try drawing a couple more cards that speak especially to his sentiments and any possible anxieties he may have to get a better idea. You might be able to better comprehend his emotional state with cards like the Moon or the Page of Cups. Though it seems that he admires you overall, it's a good idea to dig deeper to fully comprehend his sentiments. This should be helpful, hopefully

This Queen of Wands really wants things to be her way, and she can be bossy. She is commanding, but not in the way that you plan for the future. She cares more about what you want and what you do right now.
So, he probably doesn't think of you as someone who plans everything down to the last detail, like making sure the party has the right flowers and wine. He thinks of you as the type of person who would say, "Let's fly to Rio right now!" Let's go! No need to pack!" For him, that's the kind of freedom and "bossiness"
Most of the time, guys like this kind of bossiness. It could be fun, daring, impulsive, and hard to guess for them. But some guys might feel scared because they can't match that energy or because it makes them question their place in the relationship. That doesn't mean he's not interested, though. He probably finds you very sexually attractive, creative, and full of life.
If you need to worry about something, think about the fact that he might see you as a flashy love affair instead of a long-term partner.

I hope this helps you understand better!