The 4 of Pentacles often represents taking pride in something you’ve achieved and enjoying the security that comes with it, but it also carries a note of caution, which is clearly reflected in the card’s imagery. Holding on too tightly to something can lead to possessiveness and a reluctance to let go.
Over the years, I’ve often heard the saying, "If you’re not willing to let something go, you’ll never truly have it." I’d take this card as a reminder to be mindful of how much you’re focusing on this person and aim for a healthy balance in the relationship.