Hey there,
That’s such a heartfelt question, and it’s clear how much this person and your connection meant to you. The cards you pulled seem to paint a complex picture, so let’s unpack them in a way that feels meaningful to your situation.
- The Hermit suggests he may be in a reflective or introspective phase right now—perhaps focusing on his personal growth or journey as he pursues his dreams. It doesn’t necessarily mean he’s not thinking about you, but his attention might be turned inward or toward figuring out his own path.
- The Lovers says a lot about how important your relationship is. More often than not, this card shows strong emotional ties, decisions, or even soul-level links. He seems to have been changed by your relationship too, even if he isn't fully expressing or acting on it right now.
- The fact that the Knight of Wands is backwards and that it has to do with drums makes me think that he might be having trouble staying focused or going all the way on something. He might be torn between his dreams and the chaos of trying to figure everything out.
- The Tower as a jumper suggests some kind of shake-up or revelation happening in his life—possibly a big shift in his mindset, circumstances, or even how he sees your past together.
- And with the 10 of Swords reversed on the bottom, it feels like a glimmer of healing or release. He could be working on moving forward, but not necessarily in a bad way—it’s about growth and letting go of any old pain.
Altogether, it seems like he’s deeply focused on his journey, but your connection holds significance. The cards reflect both his personal challenges and the importance of choices in life and love. Keep in mind, though, tarot is as much about you as it is about him—what feels true for you in these cards? What do you want from this chapter of your life? Sending you light and clarity as you reflect on this beautiful connection. 💕
