There is someone I will always love. Our relationship, while short, had a profound impact on my life. Him and I would have discussions about following our dreams and he is currently doing that. I always wonder if he thinks about those conversations. I asked the cards about his current feelings and did just a general 3 card spread. I used the Light Seer deck. I pulled The Hermit, The Lovers, and the Knight of Wands reversed. The Tower was a jumper and the bottom card was the 10 of swords reversed. Note: the Knight of Wands in this deck features a drummer and he is a drummer so I thought that was noteworthy. Any insight is appreciated as always. Love and light xx

    Hey there,
    That’s such a heartfelt question, and it’s clear how much this person and your connection meant to you. The cards you pulled seem to paint a complex picture, so let’s unpack them in a way that feels meaningful to your situation.

    • The Hermit suggests he may be in a reflective or introspective phase right now—perhaps focusing on his personal growth or journey as he pursues his dreams. It doesn’t necessarily mean he’s not thinking about you, but his attention might be turned inward or toward figuring out his own path.
    • The Lovers says a lot about how important your relationship is. More often than not, this card shows strong emotional ties, decisions, or even soul-level links. He seems to have been changed by your relationship too, even if he isn't fully expressing or acting on it right now.
    • The fact that the Knight of Wands is backwards and that it has to do with drums makes me think that he might be having trouble staying focused or going all the way on something. He might be torn between his dreams and the chaos of trying to figure everything out.
    • The Tower as a jumper suggests some kind of shake-up or revelation happening in his life—possibly a big shift in his mindset, circumstances, or even how he sees your past together.
    • And with the 10 of Swords reversed on the bottom, it feels like a glimmer of healing or release. He could be working on moving forward, but not necessarily in a bad way—it’s about growth and letting go of any old pain.

    Altogether, it seems like he’s deeply focused on his journey, but your connection holds significance. The cards reflect both his personal challenges and the importance of choices in life and love. Keep in mind, though, tarot is as much about you as it is about him—what feels true for you in these cards? What do you want from this chapter of your life? Sending you light and clarity as you reflect on this beautiful connection. 💕

      BellaWil Thank you so much for this insight and your detailed response. I think you’re spot on when it comes to how I feel the cards are speaking to me. Obviously I can’t know his feelings, but what you described definitely feels like his energy and him. His focus on his journey is helping me focus on mine, and I think that speaks to the impactful cards that I pulled. I really appreciate it xx

        queenofwands
        From what you’ve shared, it seems like there’s still a lot of depth and meaning tied to your connection. It sounds like he’s in a period of self-reflection and transition, and while he might not be actively expressing it, your relationship likely still holds significance for him. People process emotions and memories in their own ways, especially when they’re focused on personal growth or big life changes.
        It might help to focus on what this connection means for you now and how you want to carry it forward in your life—whether that’s holding onto the lessons and letting go, or leaving space for something new to develop in time. Either way, trust your intuition; you know more than you think about what feels right.

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