Ohh yeah, I totally get what you mean!
I never really vibe with the whole "lost love" take on the Ace of Cups reversed either. For me it’s like the emotions are there but something’s clogging the pipes. You want to open up, create, connect, but there’s this weird emotional traffic jam.
Sometimes I read it as being emotionally drained or needing a breather. Or just feeling totally overwhelmed, like there’s too much feeling and no outlet, so it all folds back inward.
I love how you put it, not about absence but about expression. That really hits home. Thanks for bringing this up — this card is way more layered than people give it credit for!