So I have been interested in tarot for a long time.
Recently I started pulling my own cards.
Because this reading is for me, I would like your opinion on this spread!

My partner and I have been separated for about a month now. We both found it very hard to make this decision.

I asked the question: How does this person feel about me?

3 of wands
Ace of pentacles
King of pentacles

The three of wands indicates a third party and work being done. I don’t think there is someone else so that must stand for either a blockage by someone or a situation. My intuition tells me he’s keeping himself distracted and wants to focus on work/adventures etc.

With the Ace and King of pentacles I feel like there’s still a place for me in his heart and there’s still love and commitment.

Then I asked if there was a chance of reconciliation:

Ace of wands
King of wands

Again the Ace and the King.
This I interpreted as there still has to be work done and time and patience is key. But from this I got a yes.

Any thoughts?

Hey there! It sounds like you're really diving into the tarot and making some thoughtful interpretations of your spreads. I’d be happy to share some insights on how these cards might reflect your partner’s feelings and the potential for reconciliation.

For the first question about how your partner feels about you:

  1. Three of Wands: While you mentioned it might indicate a third party or work, it's also a card of looking forward and planning. It might suggest that your partner is at a stage of figuring out what comes next, perhaps focusing on personal growth or future possibilities. If you feel it's about him keeping himself busy, that’s valid—this card could definitely reflect focusing on personal projects or ambitions.
  2. Ace of Pentacles: This card is a great sign if you’re considering the emotional investment and potential new beginnings. It represents new opportunities and potential for growth. It’s a seed of a new beginning in your material or emotional life, so feeling that there's still a place in his heart makes sense here.
  3. King of Pentacles: This king is stable, reliable, and nurturing. He takes his responsibilities seriously and values security and comfort. His presence suggests that your partner still harbors strong, stable feelings for you, associated with commitment and care.

Regarding the possibility of reconciliation:

  1. Ace of Wands - This is a card of new beginnings and enthusiasm. It’s about sparking a new passion or initiative, which aligns well with your interpretation of needing to work on things and have patience. It signals a potential fresh start or a new phase in your relationship if the energy and initiative are directed towards reconciliation.
  2. King of Wands: As a figure, this king is dynamic, charismatic, and a leader. He’s passionate and goes after what he wants with confidence. His appearance in your reading could suggest that if you both decide to reconcile, it will require active and clear leadership in terms of emotional direction—someone needs to take the initiative to rekindle the relationship.

From your readings, it sounds like there’s a foundation of stability and affection that hasn’t gone away despite the separation. Both spreads indicate growth, potential new beginnings, and the presence of strong, guiding energies through the Kings and Aces. These are positive signs that there’s a substantial basis for reconciliation if you both are willing to put in the effort and navigate the necessary changes with patience and clear intentions.

Keep trusting your intuition as you navigate these cards and your feelings—it seems to be guiding you well!

    Certainly, I'd be happy to answer your perceptive questions and examine the cards:
    The Ace of Wands represents fresh energy and starts a fire of excitement. If you put forth the effort and energy suggested by this card, which is a lively indication of reviving and revitalizing the connection, a new beginning is within reach.
    The King of Wands represents a proactive attitude toward achieving one's goals. Given his presence, it's clear that leadership and swift action are required to mend the relationship.
    Your readings reflect a positive outlook, with foundational feelings of stability and care paired with the potential for new beginnings and enthusiastic efforts toward reconciliation. Both spreads are optimistic, indicating that with clear intentions and proactive steps, there is a strong foundation for a renewed, flourishing relationship. Keep following your intuition and good luck on your journey towards understanding and possibly rekindling your connection!

      All things considered, the cards point to a combination of security, fresh chances, and the possibility of personal and financial development. With Kings and Aces in the deck, it's a good sign that the two sides may still have deep-seated sentiments and see a lot of hope for mending fences. Reestablishing contact may be possible with swift, unambiguous measures and consistent, open dialogue. Stay positive and keep an open mind as you go along this road!

        MariiaMelnyk Thank you so much for your response!

        It makes me understand the 3 of wands and ace of pentacles a lot better, also for future spreads.

        It resonates a lot since we are meeting up on Thursday.

        Thanks again, really appreciate this!

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